Okay, here I go. I'll add a few things that I find works.
Removing paint.
On broad areas of flat STEEL, I use a flap disc on an angle grinder, max of 60 grit though. then run over again with an 80 grit, then a wire cup wheel. (Be careful NOT to travel in a lateral direction because it leaves grind marks, longtitudinal or circular is the way to go, see pic, and let the disc do the work, dont apply excessive pressure). For internal corners and edges, I use a normal wire wheel on the grinder, not a cup. Then I finish off with about a 240 grit wet & dry paper. For pain in the butt internal corners, I use the Oxy/Accetylene with a neutral flame, (carburising just leaves a mess, and oxidising induces rust). Only long enough to burn the paint, not warp the steel. Then a small wire brush to clean up.
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Bolts, shafts, intricate parts made of STEEL, I find the ol' wire wheel on the bench grinder can't be beaten. Then key with 240 wet & dry. Don't hit aluminium with a wire wheel as it ruins it, gives it a streaky finish.
For brass, copper, diecast aluminum, I use scratch free scotchbrite. Steel wool or similar I find gives a really nice look, but it also gives the "over-restored" look when finished. Most times, parts made with these metals and processes were not polished when new.
For sand cast items, (rough looking finish), definately a sandblaster. But with only fine sand. Coarse sand can take too much off and ruin the look, gives a blotchy look when repainted. Caustic Soda is good too, but it's not really kosha these days, and it absolutely LOVES aluminium! Brake fluid is another good one, but it takes a while and can leave a residue in porous metal. Complicates things when it comes to repainting.
Painting.
Definately wash everything with a residue free cleaner that evaporates, Prepsol is good. Metholated Spirits is quite good too, a lot cheaper, just don't drink it! (Tastes terrible). lol. Metho is also an excellent cleaner for aluminium welding too!, neutralises oxidisation.
An etch primer is a good way to go, just make sure that it's compatible with the paint you put over it. It'll turn out rather sad looking otherwise. There are plenty of paints available these days that actually include an etch primer, "Wattyl Epoxy Enamel" is one, I use it regularly, just takes about a week to dry thoroughly. Like a rock when it does though, and fuel doesn't hurt it once it's cured properly. Fish oil is another good old trick for stopping rust, just need to get one that you can paint over, and give it plent of time to cure. Spraying is best, not brushing.
Then of course, there's 2 Pack paint for the bigger jobs. Highly toxic fumes though, and spraying it in your backyard or shed isn't really legal. But then, only if you get caught I guess! Spraying enamels are good too, but it's old technology now days, lots of paint around now thats better, unless of course you're doing a concourse restoration. Just remember, the finish you get off the gun, is what you end up with.
Preserving brass and copper from tarnish.
I often use a satin finish clear paint of good quality. Gloss can give that over-restored look again. Be sure though, NOT to use Brasso or similar first, paint hates it.
Plastics.
Depending of course on how bad it is, I use wet & dry paper. Really bad stuff needs to be evaluated, because sanding obviously removes thickness. Usually start with 600 grit, and work my way up 2000 grit. Then just good ol' kitten car polish. On clear plastics, start with 1000 grit. Car wreckers use this trick alot, even car yards. You can even forget about the polish, and use a clear gloss paint. On extremely rare pieces, you can use a fine, panel beaters finishing filler. Supercheap have it in stock. Then just go through the sanding and prep proceedures applicable.
Rubber.
I find the best for rubber that isn't perished is just steel wool. Brings it up nice and black again, and only a satin type finish. Perished rubber can be restored, for looks, by using Sikaflex. Do some practice with it first to get good at obtaining a nice streak free finish. Plenty of water and a steel scraper usually gives a good finish. You can even make new rubber seals and grommets this way, just need plenty of time and patience. If you want, you can make a mould and coat it with linseed oil. Had a mate in a car club who made all the fidly bits for an old Alvis this way.
Undoing rusted bolts.
The first thing I do is use heat. Enough to break the rust without melting the metal. Let it cool and then try it. Dont use excessive force though, if it's still stubborn, do it again. The heating and cooling is usually enough to break the hold, and sometimes loosen the bolt. Be aware though, using heat will weaken the structure of the metal. So if it's a high tension bolt, replace it with a new one.
Screws in aluminium.
Getting these pesky little suckers out can be a real pain. Usually you end up destroying the head. The best way, and it works everytime, is to use a hammer and punch directly on the top of the head, not sideways, and give it a whack. Not hard enough to damage the aluminium though. Good ol' shock treatment. Sometimes works on steel bolts too.
Taper locks.
As in ball joints or Victa boss's. I dont own one of those tapered wedge things. All I use is two large hammers. Hold one against one side, and hit the direct opposite side with the other. Might take a few hits, but it will work. Wont damage crankcase housings or flywheels either. Unless you're off target! lol
Hope all this can help someone, it works for me and I've been doing it for years. I've got 30+ years as fitter up my sleeve.
I'll put more hints up as I get the time.