Hi AVB,
As we have been married 57 years she is now a wake up to me. Might have got away with it some years ago but not now
So she done got wise to your tricks.

Usually the young trusting ones that fall for this trick.
It sorta like holding onto an electric fence wire and getting someone to touch you. They only fall for it once. That was a fun thing when I was a kid. Of course I had on rubber boots.
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Or the old charged up condenser trick that is pulled on new mechanics.